Sweet November

 

SWEET NOVEMBER, this is my third time to watch this movie, it was

same as former times to touch my heart.  The plot describes an unique

woman, Sara, to try to change the life of a man, Nelson, forever within

one month.  It is impressive of me about Sara’s free manner, smart brain,

sweet mind, crazy behavior……in one word, she is an attractive and

conformtable woman.  Except for Sara’s disease, such woman really

bring a sweet month for Nelson and chang his life a lot.  It is a warm film,

the most people in this movie are kind and nice, so I feel pleasant and

relaxed upon watching it.  The ending, it is a sad point, Sara asks Nelson

to leave because of that she want him to have only happy and strong

memories of her, in addtion, she cannot bear to have Nelson experience

her decline in health and eventual death.  This is so call Sara’s love way,

she really love Nelson very much…………As for Nelson, admiring his

bravery, he does not quit love to Sara even though she may die in the near

future, yes, “ ‘Tis better to have loved and lost, than never to have lost at all.”

 

Do not remember from when I love to watch the romance film, perhaps,

from the time I believe true love is existed.  Recently, there are some bad

news about friends’ marriage, some of them choose to divorce, some

of them have serious quarrel with their spouse.  Remembering to the past,

I also experienced such painful marriage life, and have been frustrated

of it.  However, I and husband have past through those tests safely, now,

we cherish eatch other more than before.  We believe marriage cannot be

kept, but true love.  True love will make you be lenient, considerated,

willing to offer, to put aside id, to completely accept the original nature of eatch other.

 

To quote "The Prophet" :

Love one another, but make not a bond of love;

Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.

Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup.

Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.

Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of you be alone,

Even as the strings of a lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping.

For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.

And stand together yet not too near together:

For the pillars of the temple stand apart,

And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.

 

To quote "Corinthians 13" :

Love is patient, love is kind.

It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 

It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no

record of wrongs. 

Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 

It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 

Love never fails.